this is one of the most tragically honest things ive ever read
Sad but true
This is so accurate
holy mother of god
if you yell at me theres a 103% chance ill cry.
You can’t inevitably suppose that when you’re finally in a relationship, you’ll be happy. Nothing in this life is promised. You can’t be happy with someone else if you aren’t happy with yourself. You have to be content with yourself and life in general. You have to be comfortable with yourself, before you can give yourself to someone. Its not always a boyfriend or a girlfriend, that will fulfill you. Ask yourself what is it to happy? To be happy is to have a feeling of contentment and peace, like you don’t need anything else. Having an atmosphere of good fellowship and laughs and good times, is being happy. It’s enjoying life for the little things.
The trick is to take everything you get from your friends and family, even strangers and keep what each could give you and build your world from it. You’ll start to see the big picture and all the pieces will start to fit together. You shouldn’t focus all your energy or time onto one person, trying to please them and thinking somehow they’ll make you happy. You have to learn how to stand on your own, you have to learn things the hard way but most importantly you’ll have to learn how you can’t necessarily depend on anyone else to make you happy because sometimes that person won’t be there. <3
- Always say yes to seeing friends
- Eat breakfast every day
- Recognize that positive change rarely happens overnight
- Accept the fuck-ups, but try not to let them happen again
- There is a song to remedy every situation on the planet
- Appreciate the people in your life
- Look for the good in everything
- Try new things and try them often
- Treat yourself as well as you treat others